How emotional damage ruined marriages

By Apostle Michael Ibiyemi

The resulting emotional damage is often profound and can be irreparable, leading to feelings of anger, hurt, and resentment.

These intense emotions listed below and the broken trust can make it challenging to rebuild relationship, often leading to the dissolution of the marriage.

Increased misunderstandings
Misunderstandings are one of the key things that destroy marriage. They often stem from ineffective communication and can lead to partners misinterpreting each other’s words and intentions, especially during stressful situations or when discussing sensitive topics.
Without healthy communication between couples, misunderstanding, and doubts can engulf a relationship.

These misunderstandings can escalate into significant conflicts, creating a persistent sense of frustration and resentment, which are factors in what destroys most marriages.

Emotional distance: A significant consequence of poor communication is the emotional distance creates between partners, making it a critical thing that will ruin marriage.
As communication deteriorates, spouses may start to feel more like roommates than romantic partners. This emotional disconnection can lead to a lack of empathy and understanding, making each partner feel isolated and alone, which is a major factor in things that kill a marriage.

Escalation of conflicts: Without effective communication, minor disagreements can quickly turn into major conflicts, which are one of the things that destroy marriage.

Most couples could find themselves arguing over trivial matters due to underlying communication failures, creating a hostile or uncomfortable home environment that strains the relationship.

Erosion of trust: Trust is built on open and honest communication, and its erosion is among the things that destroy a relationship.

When communication is lacking, it can lead to suspicion and doubt, with each partner questioning the other’s sincerity and commitment, which undermines the foundation of the marriage.

Decreased problem-solving ability: The ability to resolve issues is crucial in a marriage, and a lack of effective communication hampers this, making it one of the things that destroy marriage.

When problems go unresolved due to poor communication, it can lead to a buildup of issues, creating a sense of hopelessness and a feeling that concerns and needs are not being addressed.

Reduced support and understanding
Understanding and supporting each other is essential in any successful marriage.

Poor communication hinders a partner’s ability to understand and empathize with the other’s experiences and feelings, leaving each partner feeling alone and unsupported in the relationship.

Impact on physical and emotional intimacy
Communication is vital for connecting on a deeper emotional level, and its absence can significantly impact physical and emotional intimacy.

This decline in intimacy is a key factor in what destroys most marriages, leading to a decrease in affectionate gestures and a lack of interest in sexual intimacy.

Effective communication is essential for maintaining a healthy, supportive, and fulfilling marriage. It allows partners to understand and empathize with each other, resolve conflicts, build trust, and maintain a close emotional connection.

For counselling, advise and prayer, please visit Engr/Apostle Michael Ibiyemi of United Christian Church at Ile Ogbo street, New Oko- Oba, Abule-Egba, Lagos, call or watsapp him on: +234 815 553 1198.